Pride And Groom In Britain

As ***Dave notes, it’s getting more than a tad embarrassing at how we in the US are behind other nations when it comes to our tolerance (or lack thereof) for gay marriage and other forms of civil union.

The article also notes that the Church of England “provoked fury among traditionalist Anglicans worldwide by allowing gay priests to register their civil partnerships, as long as they remain celibate.” So that’s at least a step in the right direction (in my opinion), and although I wish they hadn’t put the celibacy restriction in. Frankly, though, who is going to go to the trouble to register a civil partnership and then remain celibate? With any luck, it’s going to become one of those quiet little not-so-secret secrets about Father Julian and his nice mate Trev that nobody bothers about in the village parish.

And then maybe it will help the case of my own American version of the Anglican church in dealing with those selfsame traditionalist Anglican critics (who are mostly based in Africa and what’s called the Southern Cone, but appears to be South America and maybe some of south Asia).

FlyN’Kiss!

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David’s return from the Great White North was accomplished and I picked him up from O’Hare’s KissN’Fly meeting point last night after work.

He noted that it was much colder in Chicago than it was in Canada. Figures.

We amused ourselves by sending text messages back and forth while waiting for the “Kiss” part:

David: I have landed. 5 minutes to the gate. I will call when i am on the train. Hungery?
Ginny:[picture of bright yellow arcade covering the KissN’Fly, which serves both buses and private cars]
David:Stuck @ gate. Be a few more minutes.
Ginny: [quicktext]Love you
David: Love you too
Ginny: [private code dating back to 1995 or so]&&&***

Deathless, isn’t it? I must have failed to send the longer message I sent before the picture telling him to walk straight out from the exit to the big yellow arcade thing.

Once he finally bundled himself into the car and we smooched and whatnot, we decided on a Kampai run, since we could get hot soup and hot tea within moments of sitting down at the sushi bar. It was a logical choice because I’d noticed that westbound I-90 was backed up on my way to pick David up, and the alternate route goes relatively near Kampai.

While David was gone, I wasn’t terribly productive, but I did get some weatherizing film up on the windows in the family room (extra fun with a kitty helping!) and a little on the side of the patio doors.

I’ve now moved my computer up to the family room (with David’s help) and have my laptop set up with cordage and power source and a full size keyboard and mouse (and a very much needed desk lamp). The basement had become too uncomfortable for me with the door closed and even so, the desk space down there for me was kind of cramped and made my ankles swell up due to lack of legroom. The previous owners had a big built-in desk installed with 2 working spots – one in the corner with more space and plenty of legroom, and one along the side with a fair amount of counter space but too narrow to stretch the legs comfortably. Since the arrival of Riley

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Originally uploaded: 8 Dec ’05, 1.29am PST

Introducing Mrs. Gurney Gibbles

I ordered some Fannie Mae chocolates and sold some, too recently for a Holy Moly fundraiser. Filled in the forms, turned them in with payment a couple of weeks ago. Today at work I kept getting calls on my cell phone that went to voicemail, but I had the phone set at an annoying ring volume and the last time I pretty much opened and shut the phone to shut it up, because I can’t seem to turn down or turn off the ringer when the thing is closed.

So I managed to set it to vibrate, and the phone rang again, so I found a quiet spot and answered it. It was at the end of the day so I didn’t feel too bad about breaking the “no chatting on cell phones at work” rule. A lady on the other end said “Mrs. Gibbles?” and I said cautiously “No, this is Mrs. Gibbs,” (which always amuses me, because Mrs. Gibbs is David’s mom, not me). And she called me by my first name and I realized it was someone from church who’s taking point on the Fannie Mae stuff this year.

Apparently, all the other orders were perfectly legible, but my name got garbled to “Mrs. Gurney Gibbles.”

W: Ignorantly Hostile to Science and Technological Progress

IS GEORGE BUSH THE WORST PRESIDENT — EVER? – Yahoo! News

Columnist Richard Reeves reports on a recent poll of historians published by The History News Network at George Mason University:

This is what those historians said — and it should be noted that some of the criticism about deficit spending and misuse of the military came from self-identified conservatives — about the Bush record:

  • He has taken the country into an unwinnable war and alienated friend and foe alike in the process;
  • He is bankrupting the country with a combination of aggressive military spending and reduced taxation of the rich;
  • He has deliberately and dangerously attacked separation of church and state;
  • He has repeatedly “misled,” to use a kind word, the American people on affairs domestic and foreign;
  • He has proved to be incompetent in affairs domestic (New Orleans) and foreign (Iraq and the battle against al-Qaida);
  • He has sacrificed American employment (including the toleration of pension and benefit elimination) to increase overall productivity;
  • He is ignorantly hostile to science and technological progress;
  • He has tolerated or ignored one of the republic’s oldest problems, corporate cheating in supplying the military in wartime.

Quite an indictment. It is, of course, too early to evaluate a president. That, historically, takes decades, and views change over times as results and impact become more obvious. Besides, many of the historians note that however bad Bush seems, they have indeed since worse men around the White House. Some say Buchanan. Many say Vice President Dick Cheney.

I love that phrase “ignorantly hostile.” Actually, I think it goes deeper than that – Bush is also “aggressively incurious” and “wilfully ineducable in the area of uncomfortable facts.”

I also love how the list reads like part of another well-known historical document.

Friday

Friday was kind of a busy day. That night was the holiday party for David’s office, and we had hotel reservations for the night, so the point was to get down there as early as possible and relax a little before going to the party.

The relaxing part didn’t happen, owing to the typically “lousy” Friday commute traffic (“lousy” is the current term of choice used by the local traffic reporters on WBEZ).

Work was work, but I’d arranged to go in early so I could leave “early.” This was theoretical – I ended up leaving about 20 minutes later than I’d hoped, but that was still better than it could have been. I took an hour to get to the hotel (allowing for only one wrong turn, which I figured out quickly enough). At least I could enjoy the news on National Public Radio on my way down. It amused me no end to hear that Justice Department lawyers thought that the Texas resdistricting plans Tom Delay spearheaded were illegal, but they were overruled by senior officials. And it wasn’t political or anything, according to a spokesman, who said that all those lawyers, who were in the Civil Rights department, had a liberal agenda. Oh, brother.

‘Tis the season, I thought. Anyway, I made it at last, got changed quickly, and we went off to the dinner party. David’s brother (Hi, Mitch!!!) had suggested ComedySportz as an entertainment choice when Cynthia, the lady in charge of the annual arrangements was looking for something different for this year’s party.

It was a big hit, and everyone seemed to have a great time, even Cynthia when she got pulled up to play a game called Power Lunch. I think it was the best holiday party ever, frankly. Way, way better than sitting around watching the creepy DJ trying to teach people to do the Electric Slide every year. Different DJ this year, too.

A little snow had fallen when we left the next morning, but there was almost no traffic (lousy or otherwise) and it only took me about 15-20 minutes to retrace my route. David ran an errand and still beat me home, because apparently ripping along at almost 70 mph is still too frigging slow (I had to move over to the slow lane because I got tired of the way people were ostentatiously speeding past on either side, then slowing down. Dickwads).

The rest of the day was spent in making it up to Riley, who had spent the night alone. A good time was had by all.

Thursday

I had volunteered to do a laundry run Thursday for one of the local PADS shelters; their regular person couldn’t make it and I got a call the night before. I didn’t have all the details on the pickup point, but I managed. Basically, I picked up bags of dirty laundry at lunch – easy, given where it was – and then dropped it off and picked up clean laundry sets at a nearby hospital after work. It was a long day, with lots of stuff going on at work, but the laundry thing was oddly relaxing.

Since I can’t really commit the time to doing shift work for PADS, this seems like a good way to help them out. At least one other person from Holy Moly will be doing it, possibly two.

I’ve never done volunteer work before – this is one way to back in to it, but it’s a little solitary. At some point, some of us from Holy Moly will sign up to host a meal for the shelter.

An Interesting Work Environment

Lot of things to get done next week. At least one major deadline got moved up on what I’m calling “the ‘Our World Is Changing’ project.”

We recently went through a tech upgrade that, frankly, doesn’t benefit line agents much. In the interests of security, we’re now unable to download files or make changes to certain directories. Which is good. Unfortunately, our workhorse “programmable” key files now reside in the directory we can’t touch, meaning that whatever we had for programmables on the day tech services upgraded us is what we’re stuck with for keys, forever. Can’t update them permanently, only until the next time the set is rebooted. Can’t write completely new keyfiles either, apparently. So if I ever do a significant change to a key, I’ll have to file a tech service request.

Except, of course, for old technology – a method of storing keys that I hate to use, but will now probably fall back on for loading up changes for the day. I’ve just realized that one essential key that I update daily will be affected by yet more tech changes coming next week, so I guess I’ve got a workaround.

Meh.

I was supposed to get a lot farther up on training people and downloading software, but this hasn’t been the week for that, owing to the usual frequent interruptions. We’ll see how it goes.

Return Of the Big House Of Inflatables

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Yes, Santa can simultaneously ride his snowmobile AND motor around in his Yuletide power boat. He’s the ultimate multi-tasking guy, you know.

Actually, this is pretty tame for the BHOI: I’ve blogged before about the many, many inflatable lawn blimps they’ve displayed over the years.

One thing that I notice every time the inflatables come out in this area is how disturbing they look during the daytime. Most people around here don’t keep them inflated and illuminated in the daytime, so that leaves puddles of holiday-color fabric on the suburban lawns – they look oddly festive and corpse-like at the same time.

Tonight it’s a snowy night, so it was a pretty evening for driving around running errands. The houses with the tasteful decorations (and pretty much none of these have inflatables) are nice to look at, and the ones with lawn blimps look their best on a dark, snowy night.

There’s something so lonesome about driving up a quiet street on a snowy night and seeing yard after yard of bright, empty inflatable decorations, though. Brr.

Via: Flickr Title: Bhoi By: GinnyRED57
Originally uploaded: 3 Dec ’05, 10.43pm PST